The next BIG STEP

August 17th, 2011  |  Published in Educating the Chaotic Mind  |  2 Comments


In the last five months, we have run the gamut as far as schooling goes. We started out the year in our local public school, left our public school in March and allowed Drue to “deschool” for six weeks where she lolled about in her pajamas, read a lot of books, spent a few hours a week with her therapist, chased puppies all over the backyard, and watched an unimaginable number of documentaries on marine life and World War II. No wait. That last part about WWII was me. Then came the testing and the observing and the research and discussions about all the different kinds of homeschooling methods and philosophies. Somewhere in all of this, I fell in with this great group of unschoolers who accept me even though I am Type A and write curriculum and lesson plans and align everything to the California Standard Course of Study. They just smile at me and whisper “OCD!” to each other and accept that I am strange in my own way and like me regardless.

And for the most part, Drue has thrived. The sad note is that she seems to have lost most of her friends from public school. Jason and I also lost our “parent base” either because we were out of sight/out of mind, we are “the parents of that girl who slapped that kid” (never mind that Drue got slapped as well) or we’re just weirdos who homeschool in “the best public school system in the country!” Or it might be our stance on protecting the oceans – we’re kind of marine fanatics in this house. We’re hoping the homeschool group we created will bear some friendly fruit and are looking forward to this school year more so than last year. Go figure.  We paid a fortune to move into one of the best school districts and found out that the US public education system let us down.  Good to know it wasn’t just a Virginia thing!

So after a series of BIG steps in the last few months, we just took another and applied to and was accepted in a Charter School. Regardless of what you know or think you know about charter schools, this one supports independent learning (aka homeschooling) but provides you with an Education Specialist who guides you to ensure your child is meeting state curriculum standards, provides state testing, report cards and transcripts and funding. Yes, you read that correctly. We are getting state funds to pay for some of Drue’s homeschool classes.

Now before you FREAK OUT think about this… I pay 38% of my income into the system. We pay into the school district even though Drue no longer attends. Our property and local taxes pay into the school district too – even though Drue no longer attends public school!  So am I comfortable with the fact that I am getting back a tiny fraction of what other children CONSUME in my tax dollars to attend public school here to pay for a small piece of my child’s education? Darn tootin’ I am! But even if I didn’t receive a dime, we are really excited about belonging to this particular charter program. We have a fantastic education specialist who has already proven indispensable in educating me on California’s a-g standards. a-g requirements are usually something a parent concerns themselves with in high school. But it seems my “emotionally immature, math-deficient” child blew threw her review of 4th through 6th grade math in a few months, dominated Advanced Pre-Algebra this summer and qualified for Algebra I and Geometry this fall and spring. What this means, for those of you who don’t remember the math progression through high school,  is that while my kid is sitting in Advanced Algebra II or Trig in 9th grade, those “emotionally mature” kids will  just have completed some form of Algebra I.   I can draw you a chart if you’re confused or just point you here if you need a picture to figure out how this high school math thing works. It might be a little different in your school district but I think you get the general idea.

Since Drue qualifies for Algebra I and Geometry as a 7th grader, we need to find a-g curriculum outside of a normal classroom setting. Usually homeschoolers hit up their local community college to ensure they are taking a-g courses, but Drue does not feel ready to sit in a classroom with 16-30 plus year olds. And frankly, I’m not ready for her to sit in that class either. Luckily, the San Jose School of Russian Mathematics teaches Algebra I and Geometry to kids as early as 7th grade provided they qualify (aka test in and have the necessary grade point average) for the classes. Unfortunately, this particular school is not an “a-g” school. That is where our Education Specialist comes in and we’re looking forward to her help in working around this little problem. Had it been me on my own, I have no idea what I would have done. I do know it would have taken hours of my own research, a lot of stress, time away from my 30 days of fun (yes, that is still going on!) and countless sleepless nights until I figured out a solution. But thanks to our charter school, I have a partner in this who is looking for options and solutions for me. That is complete and total happiness!

Over the summer, I worked for an hour or two (or five or six) each day on this year’s Fall and Spring curriculum and am really happy with it. Not only does Drue have a fast-track science curriculum that includes labs at home and at Rock It Science but she is taking 7th and 8th grade California Science Curriculum this year. It seems when I was not paying attention, Drue downloaded and completed 90% of the California required science curriculum for 7th graders this summer and managed to get perfect scores on every test I could fling at her. Go figure… She also found an ongoing science project to join, a nature studies class to take (plants, birds, and other fun things!), and we have curriculum from friends at the Monterey Bay and Birch Aquarium just in case she gets bored (or just in case she decides that this week, it is a moral imperative for her to concentrate her every waking hour on something pertaining to ocean life). I’ve created her history and societal studies curriculum (more on that later) and ensured we have fun projects, documentaries, museum trips and field trips to show Drue how fun and exciting learning about our past can be! Drue starts Japanese lessons in a few weeks (more on that later) and piano lessons next week. Drue joined a computer class – Introduction to Java Programming – that meets once a week and volleyball begins in September and ends in November whereupon Drue is trying out for Club Volleyball, hoping to get into one of the elite teams. So keep your fingers crossed for her!

All in all, it’s a busy and exciting time. School started for us for the fall on Monday the 15th so we are quickly integrating the new curriculum into our day while Drue attends volleyball clinics.  And because we homeschool, we have trips to the lake house and Irish Beach scheduled. We’re so excited for this fall and all our new adventures, both planned and those that might creep up on us, and I am so thankful that we took this big step into the charter school program.  I’ll post more soon on Drue’s entire curriculum for fall!  Feedback, particularly from my amazing friends who happened to major in history, journalism and linguistics, is most welcome.

Happy learning!

Responses

  1. Lori Lavender Luz says:

    August 23rd, 2011at 7:47 am(#)

    Kudos to you for making the tough decisions and doing the hard work to get Drue what she needs.

    The place where we live is also friendly to homeschooling. In fact, when my kids were babies I taught in a homeschooling co-op that was funded by the school district. It was a good blend of the best of what public schooling and homeschooling have to offer.

    Wishing you all a fantastic school year!

    ICLW #28

  2. Jeri says:

    August 23rd, 2011at 8:13 am(#)

    Hi Lori,

    Thank you! It’s been a long but fun journey thus far. Sadly the particular school district we live in is not “homeschool friendly” but we lucked out and found some lovely “homeschool tolerant” folks who were willing to help us. The Bay Area is pretty wide open and tolerant so we’re able to find all the resources we need. I love the idea of a homeschool co-op. What a fantastic idea! Did it take some of the daily ongoing teaching burden off the individual parents and share it around a little?

Leave a Response

2012 Resolutions (Jeri and Raz’baby)

Jeri -- Personal
1. Eliminate that one thing that keeps holding me back
2. Start a Happiness Project!
3. Complete 1/3 of my 101 tasks (101 Things in 1001 Days). For you non-math folks, that means I need to complete 34 of them.
4. Update Lifeinflux.com to a more user-friendly format
5. Blog daily
6. Practice small acts of kindness to myself and others on a regular basis

Jeri -- Professional
1. Complete PR and Marketing package for FM including new website
2. Follow my passions and trust FM will take care of me and itself
3. Network! Stop hiding behind the façade of "modesty".
4. Let go of the small stuff. All of it. It's not worth the time, energy or emotion.

Razbaby --
1. Pass my Canine Good Citizen test
2. Learn to socialize a little better (aka not the way I do with Marzi cause other puppies don't like it when I roll them and chew on their muzzles)
3. Keep up the cute!

What I would be reading if I wasn’t typing this…

End Game by Frank Brady

Totally looking forward to…

- starting up homeschool again with Drue. We have a FANTASTIC semester planned! - getting back into my routine at the gym. - daily walks with Razzles once my schedule recommences. - cruise at the end of January!

I’m listening to this right now, at this very moment…

Drue giggling. Best sound ever!

Travel Updates

January: Week long cruise to Puerto Vallarta and Cabo San Lucas
February: China Lake!
March: Cancun (Partially booked!); Alabama - Tentative
April: Mom and Mizmo are coming to the Bay Area; heading to Cleveland to shoot a Gala.
May: Shhhh! It's a surprise!!!
June: Girls Trip 2012, Drue to San Diego
July: Cleveland for a long weekend
August: Drue to Florida; Jeri to Toronto
September: TBD
October: TBD
November: Alabama for Thanksgiving
December 2012. Bahamas!! Looking into starting SCUBA certification in January 2012!!


Archives